10 Habits of a Disciple
"Whoever believes in me will do the works that I do, and will do greater ones that these... -John 14:12
These ten habits of discipleship are key ways we grow deeper in our relationship with Jesus Christ and open ourselves to His transforming grace; grace that moves us to seek Christ, know Christ, and become Christ each one for the sake of all.
Wondering what The BIG 10 is all about? Watch the video with Jill Fischer our director of discipleship & formation to find out!
Where did the idea come from?
The 10 Habits of a Disciple concept and corresponding materials were inspired in part by our parish's collaboration with The Evangelical Catholic, creators of The 10:10 Challenge: 10 Weeks, 10 Ways to a Jesus-Led Life. For a deeper dive into all ten of the habits, including daily readings, prayer practices, discussion guides, and tips for living the habits in everyday life, we encourage you to pick up a copy of The 10:10 Challenge for personal use or to share with family, friends, and small groups.
Habit # 1: PRAY every Day

Key Scripture
"Then, He went up on the mountain by himself to pray." Mathew: 14:23
Daily prayer is as essential for Christians as breathing. We see in the Gospels that Jesus frequently went off by himself to a deserted place to pray. If Jesus Christ needed quiet time to pray and connect with God, how much more do we?
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Prayer Resources
Habit #2: PRAY with Scripture

Key Scripture
"For just as from the heavens the rain and snow come down and do not return there till they have watered the earth, making it fertile and fruitful...so shall my Word be that goes forth from my mouth; it shall not return to me void, but shall do my will, achieving the end for which I sent it." Isaiah 55:10-11
The Bible is the inspired Word of God. What we read aren't just words, but the truth of God revealed. Words capable of transforming, healing, and drawing us close to Him.
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More ways to Pray with Scripture:
LECTIO DIVINA
Lectio Divina ("divine reading") is a practice of praying through the reading of Scripture, opening oneself to the inspiration and communication of the Holy Spirit. The practice dates to ancient monastic communities, but it has been embraced today as a way to meaningfully engage with the Word of God.
How to Pray with Lectio Divina - Dynamic Catholic
THE BIBLE PROJECT
The Bible Project is a helpful website for understanding different aspects of the Bible in short digestible clips in a wide variety of topics.
The Bible Project
THE BIBLE TIMELINE
The Bible Timeline Show is a series of videos rooted in The Bible in a Year from Ascension Press. There are other options available under “Free Media” tab through Ascension Press.
The Bible Timeline – Ascension
Habit #3: REPENT & Believe

Key Scripture
"For freedom Christ set us free; so stand firm and do not submit again to the yoke of slavery." Galatians 5:1
By confessing our sins and receiving God's healing mercy through the sacrament of reconciliation, we clear away barriers and open our hearts to God's grace. We offer further resources below to aid you in understanding and participating in the sacrament.
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Resources
How to: The Sacrament of Reconciliation
An Examination of Conscience Based on the 10 Commandments
Examination of Conscience for Children
Struggling to Forgive, Finding Healing | Chris Stefanick Show - Formed
Forgiven: The Transforming Power of Confession - Formed
What Catholics Believe About Confession: How To Prepare & What To Say - Formed
Busted Halo's Guide to Confession - Busted Halo
Is Mercy Like Grace?
Habit #4: WORSHIP the Lord

Key Scripture
"Bless the Lord, oh my soul; Let all my being bless His Holy Name! Bless the Lord, oh my soul; do not forget all the gifts of God." Psalm 103:1-2
Worship is responding to God's love by loving him back with all we are and all we have. Participating fully in the Mass is the highest form of worship we can give to God. As important as Mass is, it is not the only way we are called to worship the Lord. Our entire lives are meant to be an offering of love and worship to God. Every moment and every breath!
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Resources
A Quick Guide to Praying the Mass
Your Go-To Guide for Catholic Mass Prayers and Responses
How to Visit the Blessed Sacrament | A Step by Step Guide to Adoration for Catholics
A Guide to Eucharistic Adoration
Habit #5: LOVE your Neighbor

Key Scripture
"You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment. The second is like it: you shall love your neighbor as yourself." Matthew 22: 37-39
We are all created by God in His image and likeness, which means we all have a special dignity that can never be taken away no matter what we do or what is done to us. This is why we are told to love our neighbor, no matter who they are or what we think they’ve done. If we want to love the Creator, we must love His creation. Who is your neighbor? Better question…who isn’t. The spiritual and corporal works of mercy are two traditional lists of prayer and action that remind us what it looks like to love like Jesus did in the Scriptures.
Opportunities to perform works of mercy
Elmbrook Senior Taxi
All Saint's Outreach Ministry
Waukesha County Volunteer Resources
Kinship Community Food Center
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Habit #6: LIVE in Community

Key Scripture
Encourage one another and build one another up. 1 Thessalonians 5:11
We were made to journey together. Just like God is a communion of three persons in the one Trinity: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, we too are born into and live within layers of community: family, friend groups, work groups. We were not made to be alone. Authentic Christian community is more than simply being with other Christians. It’s about depth, vulnerability, and seeking truth. Together, we can challenge, encourage, and hold each other accountable in our journey of seeking knowing, and becoming Christ, each one for the sake of all.
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Habit #7: FOLLOW the Shepherd

Key Scripture
"My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me." John 10:27
Following Jesus requires discernment to know where He is leading us. It means listening for His voice and His gentle nudges above the noise of the world. It means being obedient to what He tells us. And it means surrendering our own desires and wishes for His. But the reward for this surrender is a life far greater than we could ever create for ourselves – a life in step with the Good Shepherd.
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Habit #8: BEFRIEND Holy Helpers

Key Scripture
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us rid ourselves of every burden and sin that clings to us and persevere in running the race that lies before us while keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus." Hebrews 12:1-2A
Following Jesus is the most amazing thing we can ever do. It is also the most difficult. The good news is, we don’t have to do it alone! The saints, both the capitol “S” Saints (those officially canonized by the Catholic Church as models of following Christ) and the little “s” saints (all the faithful who have died and are in heaven) pray for us as we journey on earth. They know the struggle. They know what we are going through. They are no different from us – they simply followed Jesus as closely as possible, and they want to help us do the same. They can pray for us, talk to God for us, inspire and guide us as we keep doing the work of discipleship on earth.
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Habit #9: GIVE your Life to Jesus

Key Scripture
"Lord, to whom shall we go? You alone have the words of everlasting life." John 6:68
We cannot truly become disciples until we admit to ourselves and to God that Jesus is Lord. We are not the masters of our life: He is. And at some point in our journey, we all must surrender our lives to Jesus. We cannot remain neutral. Jesus did not have casual followers; He had disciples who gave up everything to follow Him.
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Habit #10: SHARE Jesus with Others

Key Scripture
"Go therefore and make disciples of all nations." Matthew 25:28
Have you ever read a really good book or eaten at a really great restaurant and immediately felt compelled to tell people about it? This is what friendship with Jesus is meant to be like. When you come to know Him well and see Him work wonders in your life, you want to share that with others. It’s like discovering the fountain of youth. If you found
the fountain of youth, wouldn’t you do everything you could to get your loved ones to take a drink and gain eternal life? Well, Jesus is even greater than the fountain of youth! His eternal life is real and open to all who desire it.
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